“ … … When I was younger – this will sound silly – but I knew how I felt when Isa would come home and sweep me off the floor and put his goggles on me, and I thought everyone must have that feeling. As I understood it, “love” was the a name for language your heart spoke, in jumps and flutters and missed beats. Movements. The strongest item in its vocabulary was, I thought, that swell you felt when you loved someone so much your heart seemed to have to expand to accommodate it. That’s one of the few times you can read another person’s thoughts, I think – because you can see that one on their face and in their eyes as it happens.
I never knew anyone who had such an infinite affection for people as Isa, so I, being too young to know better, asked if he would ever get married again. He gave me a big smile and said his heart was too scarred for that. It might have frightened me, if I hadn’t seen in his expression that something about the question had endeared him, and that he didn’t mean anything sinister by it.
It took his death, and Anji, and Anji’s death, and Sacha’s accident, and a thousand tiny betrayals and failures before I finally started to understand what it was he meant.
The skin on my arm, the burn – it doesn’t feel so well anymore. It’s kind of… stiff? I can feel where it ends, in places. Like the back of my shoulder. The transition from burned to healthy skin is much more sudden there, and when I move, I can feel an odd kind of pull. I think that’s what Isa meant. That your heart can take so much damage and survive, but it will be scarred, and that its jumps and its flutters will become weary and difficult and stiff somehow, as if the effort it takes to affect them outweighs the reward for doing it. It won’t feel so well; it won’t be able to swell to accommodate any more than it already has, and instead of inspiring new emotions in you, the people around you will have to make do with you lending them second hand ones in new outfits.
Eventually, there are no more skipped beats; just a kind of odd pull from your chest, as if your heart is trying to say, I still belong to you; I’m still here. When that happens, there are no more revelations or breathless confessions. Next time you fall in love with someone, you’ll approach them with a sigh and an embarrassed, amused apology – I’m terribly sorry, I seem to have gone and done it again. I know, I know, it’s against my better judgement, what can I say? It’s alright though, I think. There’s nothing wrong with that. It doesn’t make the feelings you have for them any less real than the feelings you had for the ones before; it just might mean they’re a little tired, a little battered, a little… lived-in.
Honestly, I miss being five.”
– fragment of notebook paper found in the trash at Bikanel docks.